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What should I do when an avoidant guy keeps setting up dates then canceling? After the 3rd time I told him I value consistency and I care alot about him and I'm busy and independent too and appreciate that so much! But I don't feel close or connected to him if it's been 3 weeks since I've seen him and we text almost every day. I know (from a friend) he was hurt in the past and doesn't commit and has a hard time communicating so I don't want to suffocate him but afraid he will just move on if I give him too much space. I told him i want to give this a shot if he truly does too. It's been 2 days since I've heard from him. 😞
I would love to see how to set boundaries as an avoidant person.
What should I do when an avoidant guy keeps setting up dates then canceling? After the 3rd time I told him I value consistency and I care alot about him and I'm busy and independent too and appreciate that so much! But I don't feel close or connected to him if it's been 3 weeks since I've seen him and we text almost every day. I know (from a friend) he was hurt in the past and doesn't commit and has a hard time communicating so I don't want to suffocate him but afraid he will just move on if I give him too much space. I told him i want to give this a shot if he truly does too. It's been 2 days since I've heard from him. 😞