What're Your Dating Goals?
Hi, hopeful romantic!
Whether you’re in a relationship or currently single, it’s great to set goals for your love life.
My boyfriend and I constantly work on healthier communication (spoiler: it’s hard AF sometimes). We’re super happy together, but we’re both willing to admit that we struggle when we get into arguments.
The fact is: if you want something in your love life to look differently, you have to do something differently.
And that all starts with a goal.
Just a heads up:
If you’re sick of your anxious attachment, overthinking, and lack of confidence getting in the way of your love life, I have a 1:1 coaching spot open!
I’d love to guide you towards feeling more secure. If you’re interested in learning more, you can book a free discovery call here.
Here are a few questions to help you decide what your dating goals could be:
What has been making you unhappy in your love life? What’re ways you can start changing that?
What qualities would you like in an ideal partner? How can someone show you they have those qualities?
What boundaries do you need to feel happier in your love life?
Which of your dating patterns is making you unhappy? How could you start dating differently?
How is your communication? Would you like to improve it? If so, how can you learn about healthy communication in that area?
Creating change begins with actions that will bring you closer to that change.
The fact is, a lot of people date on auto-pilot. They assume the issue is the people they date, rather than their actions that led them to date those people.
When it comes to your love life, you have a lot more control than you think.
So my question for you is: what dating goals will you create?
Feel free to reply to this email and let me know what goal you come up with!
Until next week.
All the love,
Kirstie
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Hi! I’m Kirstie
I help anxious people who don’t feel good enough for love understand their worth and find fulfilling love.
For over a decade, I was in one relationship after another with people who mistreated me or were emotionally unavailable. All of that ended when I took a year break from dating and read a book called Attached.
Learning about attachment styles changed my life. It opened doors like discovering my lack of boundaries and inability to ask for my needs to be met.
Today, I write and coach to help people through the same journey. You don’t have to feel so anxious, insecure, and uncertain when it comes to love.
I want to help you feel confident and find the love you deserve.
Want to learn more about working with me? Book a discovery call.